When someone apologizes, it’s not hard to forgive. It’s harder to forgive when someone doesn’t seem sorry at all (and may only seem to see the “faults” of others). We must forgive anyway–even if our forgiveness hasn’t been sought or desired.
The battle is not against each other. Paul says in Ephesians 6:12: “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”
We must bear with each other, and part of that is forgiving just as God has shown us forgiveness. We’re not the judge. We can look at our own actions and reactions.
Keep short accounts with God and with others, despite how others respond.
found your posting mentioned on twitter, had to come and visit. Lovely message, you really shine with God’s love!
Thanks for the gentle reminder, with perfect timing. I guess I still have the question of, is forgiving but not forgetting, still forgiving? My daughters are the ones at risk is why I ask myself this.
@Patty — Thank you so much! You have a beautiful site, and encouraging mothers with the good message is admirable 🙂
@Erick — Good question. I’ve prayed about it, and what comes to mind is that we are called to forgive one another and also show mercy. We may not forget some things, especially when we’re tempted to remember them for negative reasons. What matters is whether we join hands with the temptation and linger/dwell in the negative thought. While we of course have a memory and can recall what we think about, we should strive to keep our mind on heavenly things.
We believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins, and our sins are washed away. They are done. We are given new life. We are told that if we do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will our Father forgive our trespasses.
Jesus said, “Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God.” (Luke 9:62)
Blessings to you and your girls Erick. Thanks or taking the time to post your comment.